Yesterday a girl reached out to me. She had relapsed after being clean for 2 years. What was her reason for relapsing? She was feeling overwhelmed and stressed because her Uni work was piling up and she didn't know what to do or how to handle it. … Continue reading How to cope with STRESS?
This is such a difficult blog to write but I feel I should because maybe this blog might help someone in some way. I hope it does. Forgive me if it's too short or not well written, like I said, it's difficult for me to write this. … Continue reading Committing Suicide
Can somebody please tell my dear husband that it is NEVER a holiday, NEVER EVER a holiday when it's with the kids! He says I'm being ungrateful. I'm saying he's being ridiculous! How could he ever think that it would be a break … Continue reading Are you freaking kidding me ?! A break WITH the kids?!
Last night I was out with my squad, having a few ciders, and the topic of conversation was about marriage. The question was - Why are you still married? It's funny how in the beginning, before marriage, it's all about love, roses … Continue reading Why are you still married?
Two days ago I gave away my girl's pet birds ( all 8 of them ) to my gardener's son. He was so fascinated by the birds and had told his father how he wished he had them. To me, it was a long-awaited golden opportunity to give the birds … Continue reading Am I a ‘bad’ mother?
A few months ago, I attended a dinner party. It was one of those lavish dinners that only the rich and famous could afford to go to in Kuala Lumpur. I was invited not because I was one of them but because someone was nice enough to invite me ( long story … Continue reading Gucci or Pasar Malam?
I'm at my parent's house. Visiting them. Mum, at 70, is busy running around and chatting away. Dad, at 79, isn't saying much. He used to talk. He used to tell me loads of stories. Loads of repeated stories. Now , he seems quite. Daddy, please say something. I'm screaming inside. But all I see … Continue reading Daddy , please say something…
I have a dinner to attend... But my eyebrows are not done. I think I will wear that red dress with black heels. I need to go trim my hair. Oh my god! I need to polish my toe nails . I need to cook by 4pm and get the kids to eat by … Continue reading I have a dinner to attend…
The best part of being pregnant is that you can eat and not feel guilty about it, right? You are, after all, eating for two. But the not so great part is after delivering, you realized that you have all this weight to lose and it's the stubborn … Continue reading The girdle IS the DEVIL
Would you have an affair with your friend's husband? Yes, no, maybe, why not? Well, a friend of mine did. She is having an affair with our friend's husband. Just like that without an ounce of feeling guilty or sorry about it. You see, she's single and has got nothing to lose. She's flirtatious, happening and … Continue reading Would you have an affair with your friend’s husband?